I think most people are lost, frankly. Only a few people do the inner work that is necessary to be at peace.
People give the facade of spiritual development and inner peace but they don’t have it.
People give the facade of “I got my shit together” but they don’t.
All it takes is imperfect efforts at spiritual growth. You don’t even have to be good at it. Just sincerely desire to change and take whatever shitty efforts you happen to be capable of at the moment.
Put those spiritual pennies and nickels in the piggy bank and after a while you have some real spiritual money. Everything is OK.
Who dares wins.