From @visakanv:
Often have to remind people:
no one is coming to give you the life you want
no one is secretly watching you closely and then throw you a surprise party with that outcome you dream about
you have to actively act every day to make your dream a reality
https://twitter.com/visakanv/status/1525760456769478656?s=21&t=e6JfRAd-Qh0yUQmF-fENeQ
It’s Graham’s Killhouse Rules, for regular people.
- NOBODY IS COMING TO SAVE YOU. Whether an event lasts a few seconds, a few hours, or even a few days – you have to work as though nobody is coming to save you.
- You are your savior, so start working because EVERYTHING IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY. You are your security, you are your medic, you are your rescuer.
- You are your own best resource to SAVE WHO NEEDS TO BE SAVED. Nobody wants to save your life more than you, so set yourself up for success by having the simple tools and knowledge to do so: do what you can with what you have. Recognize that nobody is in a better position to start saving your life than you.
- Sometimes saving lives means you have to KILL WHO NEEDS TO BE KILLED. It has been almost 15 years since I first wrote “the more effective you are at taking a life, the more successful you’ll be at saving one” and nothing in the intervening time has changed my mind. Be swift, be decisive, be final.
- Mostly, ALWAYS BE WORKING. There is always something you can be doing to improve your position. Always. Because nobody is coming to save you.