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So many different versions of The Fool.

What’s interesting is to see how the esoteric symbolism is varied by each artist. The white dog becomes a brown dog or a cat.

This is how myth and meaning varies and distills over time. We can see it in front of us, on a tarot card.

I wonder how many variations are deliberate attempts to echo yet modify esoteric information transfer from one mind to another? That implies a level of mastery and intentionality that is probably unrealistic to assume. Few people have eyes to see, ears to hear. Even for the truth hidden in plain sight.

Beginners mind.

Well it’s a bright, sunny morning

Each day a new beginning

Lifeboat, by Miranda Lee Richards

It’s a bright sunny morning today, and I am overflowing with gratitude, humility, and optimism. I am The Fool.

Talk amongst yourselves.

I have a task at work I have been struggling with. For months. I have been confused about what to do.

Thinking the person I am helping is not smart, deliberately making bad choices and not facing reality. That’s what I’m thinking.

Suddenly, this morning, it dawns on me. Blinding flash.

No. It’s not him. It’s me that is making the job hard. He knows there is a problem. (I have been struggling with explaining to him that there is a problem that needs to be fixed.)

What he is searching for, and asking me for, is whether there is a softer, easier way to solve the problem.

It is my job to tell him the truth. No. It’s time to face the obstacle head-on.

My part of the problem is that I forgot this. He said it to me. He asked about a workaround. Or actually I did hear it, because I remember the conversation now. But I didn’t take it to heart.

Help people the way they want to be helped.

He wants an easier softer way.

But I don’t think he wants that, really. He doesn’t really want the easier softer way. He doesn’t expect magic, though. That’s my guess. He wants the truth.

And probably he would appreciate kind assistance along a difficult path.

Grit is doing monotonous things over and over and over and over.

Approximate quote from the RealAF podcast episode 16.

Working out is fucking boring. I’m doing it right now.

I got grit.

Take our your stonemason’s chisel and hammer. That rock will break, no longer blocking your path.

Our inward power, when it obeys nature, reacts to events by accommodating itself to what it faces—to what is possible. It needs no specific material. It pursues its own aims as circumstances allow; it turns obstacles into fuel. As a fire overwhelms what would have quenched a lamp. What’s thrown on top of the conflagration is absorbed, consumed by it—and makes it burn still higher.

Meditations 4.1

All obstacles must fall. Only time and directed power stands between you and the accomplished feat.

Obstacles into fuel. The large, freshly-cut log that is impervious to fire, until persistent heat makes it hiss and steam away the dampness within. The log smolders and bursts into flame.

Choose well. Do you have time for this obstacle? Will you have the determination and strength? If so, a decision and persistent self-discipline will bring success.

Memory is a tool. Memory is the past’s guide to the future. If you remember that something bad happened, and you can figure out why, then you can avoid that bad thing happening again. That’s the purpose of memory. It’s not to “remember the past.” It’s to stop the same damn thing from happening over and over.

Jordan B. Peterson, 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos, p. 239. Emphasis in original.

Add that to TM’s curious comment to me one day: “you can change the past.” That puzzled me. How can you change the fact that World War II happened? It sounds absurd until you realize that the past doesn’t exist—only your memories of the past exist. And you can change your memories, or at least your interpretation of your memories.

Memories are incomplete, vague, maybe ill-ordered in my head. Maybe an inconsequential event is vividly remembered and a deeply important event deliberately forgotten. It never existed, as far as my memory is concerned.

Elsewhere in this chapter, the author talks of listening and describes Freud’s process. It is exactly what EL did. And EL told me what he was doing, as he was doing it. He would say “I don’t know what the right answer is for you. But you do. I just let you talk until you discover the right answer that you already have inside you.”

EL was allowing me to reorder my memories and create an answer, an order, from them. He listened. That was what he did. Then I knew what to do in the present.

Sometimes he was explicit with feedback, because I didn’t know how to think very well. This is me at age 33, for God’s sake.

Remember the time when I wanted to rent an apartment and there were two available? One was available now (and cheaper, and had a fridge). The other one was available in two weeks. I didn’t know what to do. It seems comical in retrospect, yet there I was. One graduate degree and part-way to a second, and I couldn’t make simple choices.

“Take the apartment that is available now” was his direct response to my confusion. There was a meta-lesson in that simple sentence, quite apart from solving a dilemma in the moment.

First full day. Yesterday held a mid-morning Decision and action.

Remove obstacles by saying no. Remove obstacles by asking for help in removing them, of course. But above all, say no.

If I don’t listen to the still, small voice now . . . when will I?

In a sense, people are our proper occupation. Our job is to do them good and put up with them.

But when they obstruct our proper tasks, they become irrelevant to us—like sun, wind, animals. Our actions may be impeded by them, but there can be no impeding our intentions or our dispositions. Because we can accommodate and adapt. The mind adapts and converts to its own purposes the obstacle to our acting.

The impediment to action advances action.

What stands in the way becomes the way.

Meditations 5.20.

This is here so I can remember it daily.

I’m plunging forward. There are no half-measures.

It started today.

100 days of “No”.

That’s as good a mantra as any.

It’s arbitrary so I reserve the right to change the number, but the objective behind it stands.

Where you are judged on your actions today.

Future you is the judge. That’s why Hell is so awful. Future You is the judge. There is no escape from the realization that you did this to you by your own decisions.