the stuff you joke about (even ironically or whatever) has a way of shaping your reality so be careful and deliberate with that stuff. a lot of people out here fumbling their own bags by joking about outcomes they don’t want. you might as well joke about the outcomes you do want
https://twitter.com/visakanv/status/1394772091660951555?s=20&t=yqQ90C8FTgEeztIHaXN_Fg
It’s another way of focusing, isn’t it?
And for fuck’s sake stop with the self-deprecating humor already. You’re focusing on what you don’t want when you put yourself down in order to make others laugh.