A series of improbable events led to me sitting right here living the life I live.
Don’t try to impose a narrative on top of that, a “just so” story. The narrative would be a lie to yourself and others, because who could, in advance, engineer these events to occur in sequence? And what result would be expected if you could? Life is not a replication experiment.
The best you can do is see some deep principles in action. Those seem to produce good results. Hold true to those principles.
Ask Lindy to reveal the principles. Or look for the obvious, the boring and slightly uncomfortable. “Tell the truth”. “Keep trying”. “Be loyal”. Stuff like that.
It’s simple, but it’s not easy.